…e you’ve thought about this long and hard and this piece is very, very good and beautifully honest. So, what’s wrong with just not being polyamorous? Polyamory definitely isn’t for everyone, some of us are better at shaking the cultural norms than o…
Falling in love with polyamorous men for whom polyamory is an important part of any relationship? Frankly, this isn’t the subject of the article, and I don’t really appreciate the assumption that I just hadn’t already thought of that.
For more on why I don’t think it’s healthy to be in a monogamous relationship with a polyamorous partner (for me), please see my journals from 2016–2018 and the thousands of times I banged my head against a wall.
The answer to your question is also already answered in the article — I’m trying it to see if it works for me authentically underneath the layers of conditioning I didn’t choose to have. I’m not sure why I took the time to respond to this as I’m already annoyed at things that have nothing to do with you but that’s probably why — because I’m annoyed at unrelated things and needed to vent real quick about something at someone.
TL;DR — Yeah, I’d already thought of that. Thanks.