The End of Guilt

Let’s blame it on Kevin.

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Being blamed for a problem is a painful experience. Blaming ourselves for a problem is also a painful experience. We sometimes seek acute respite from those pains by blaming someone else for our problems — though, doing that usually ends up with us feeling more pain. Why? Because we can’t control other people; just because we blame them for the problem doesn’t mean they’ll fix it.